Relationship Coaching Tip of the Week #1 - Do you choose, or are you chosen?

This weeks tip is one of my personal favorites!  Are you aware in relationships there is always a picker and a pickee? A picker is the person who decides and ultimately chooses to pursue a relationship with you. They identify attributes within you they admire and or desire within themselves.

That's awesome right? You have what someone else desires, yaaay you! Hang on just a minute though... What about you and what you desire from a potential mate? If you are not sizing them up as well and seeing if they are emotional capable of meeting your needs then only one of you is going to be satisfied and content (and it's not going to be you).

Sure, things may go well for a while during the honeymoon phase but eventually that lust will wear off and soon be replaced with frustration and resentment. Choose today to be a picker from now on! Your feelings and desires matter!

Ashlan Warsteane
The Life Solutionist
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