Testimonials

Before working with Ashlan my life was a living hell. I met her at the lowest point. My fiancee had just left, I had returned from a visit to see my immediate family which left us all further divided than we ever had been. My life was like the movie Groundhog day a living hell over and over and over again. I would move and reinvent myself and be plagued with the same relationship dynamics, same toxic people & situations, but with a different name.

I decided to invest in the program because it was clear to me from the first time I met Ashlan that my life was going to *actually* change for the better. I had been in and out of therapy for 20 years, I have studied with healers and Gurus, I had read hundreds of books on self help, attachment theory, games people play. I had scoured the sacred texts from the eastern religions of Hinduism, Buddhism, Taoism. I believed I WAS doing the work, and it all helped a little bit.

The work with Ashlan was different from anything else I had done. Driving to my first session I was SO excited, it felt like she had a gift for me. She did not disappoint! I received what I call the breadcrumbs (the insights, validation, and confirmation) I needed that led to the places within me where the real transformational work needed to occur that has dramatically changed my inner landscape and my external reality is now, my dream come true.

And as a result, the changes I experienced have brought me into my power through healing my core wounds from childhood and deepening the process of surrender which has created for me pockets of peace that surpasses all understanding.

Because of the changes Ashlan helped influenced, my business has gone from not sustainable, on government assistance to providing for all my and my family's needs within the first 2 months of working with her. After 4 months we upgraded our home from renting a room in someone's home to moving into our own home (during a natural disaster that caused a housing shortage in the rental market). I am a sustainable successful entrepreneur and single parent who has the time to be a present parent, to cultivate my self care practices, and deepen my relationship with God. ALL of the key moves I made in up leveling my life came from insights during the work with Ashlan.

To say I am eternally grateful for the opportunity to work with Ashlan does not feel like those words fully capture how thankful I am that she could illuminated the areas that I had to do "The Work" in. As I diligently continued to follow her guidance my life was miraculously and suddenly a MUCH better place to live.

My advice for those thinking of working with Ashlan is to DO IT! The enemy in your thoughts will say do it another time or some other excuse to not embark on this journey. Ashlan IS a gift to those whom are ready to become the person who gets to live their best life. And, I highly recommend Ashlan's gift of guidance to help you get yourself there! I am rooting for you to make it to the other side and to live with the Joy, Love and Abundance your Creator intended as your birth right.

 -Victoria S.

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"I've known Ashlan for a little over a year and a half, but truly started experiencing the power of her work in February 2020. Before working with Ashlan, I was experiencing a deep depression after making a major move to a new area, starting a brand new career, and being pregnant with my first child all at once. 

I had a lot of confusion about my purpose in life. Ashlan, first of all, has an incredible sense of "knowing." Every conversation with Ashlan was well aligned, well timed, and contained information that was powerfully relevant and unexpected. Through our conversations she awakened me to the powerful force that is my own life, and that by acknowledging and embracing my own personal power I could make waves of positive change for me and everyone around me no matter where or what the situation. She made me feel like I have a purpose in being in this new area that has felt foreign and lonely to me. 

I now feel excitement instead of dread toward what I can create in this new chapter of my life.

I am the most impressed by Ashlan's fiery energy and passion for what she does. She lives and breathes her work reliably, never faltering in her drive to serve others in helping them heal and wake up to the parts of them they must fully acknowledge that helps them tackle major obstacles in their lives. Anyone who has a chance to work with Ashlan will know from the first conversation that the universe is finally "giving them a sign." What manifests from their encounters with her will be perfectly in alignment with what they need."

-Emily B.

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"When I first met Ashlan,  I was struggling with expending both my physical and emotional energy on my extended family’s well being. I was obsessed with the way my folks were not living up to the hopes and dreams I’ve held for them over the last two decades. 

Ashlan helped me to see that my expectations for their standard of living were unrealistic, out of my control and quite frankly, a huge waste of my time and energy, since their motives were not my motives. She was right! I was running in strict form while expecting my family to follow in my exact same footsteps. 

I think what led me to Ashlan and to actually seek her expertise, was her ability to address a persons challenges by piercing right into the heart of a matter, confidently knowing there is always a better way and it is totally doable!

From the work we did together, I received so many encouraging ideas and strategies to deal with years of yearning for things, from others, that only distract me when I should be in “go mode”. Now I am shifting into getting things done, while knowing I cannot be accountable for someone else’s life. Now my distractions are immediately converted in to free time used for the things that make my life much richer and fulfilling. 

My advice for those thinking of working with Ashlan, is to realize that investing in her process is investing in YOUR process. She will help you create systems for your life as she’s done in her own and for hundreds of others."

-Coach McCoy

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"When I met Ashlan, I was somewhat scattered in my thinking. What I mean by scattered is that my thoughts, especially pertinent to my love life, were very discursive and diverse. And if I focused at all on finding an "ideal" mate, I often got frustrated because I wasn't clear on my own criterion to be met by a mate. Ash has a way of dissecting your thoughts, categorizing them in such a way as to allow you to make sense of them, and then focus on the important parts that need guidance/direction. The part I love about Ash is that she doesn't try to answer your question for you; she starts you on the path that allows you to discover your own answers in such a way that you can see them and then realize that the answer was there the entire time.  

A pivotal point for me was discovering that I was standing in my own way the entire time. I had asked the Universe to bring me the right man, listed all the criterion he had to meet/possess, and then turned that man away because I subconsciously told myself that I didn't deserve this perfect man. It was that last part that was my undoing, obviously. So simple, and yet so complicated, right? All I did was give myself permission to release that old programming (thank you Ash!), and TWO WEEKS LATER the man of my dreams called me. We talked for hours and I didn't want to hang up even then...we are in a loving, respectful, honest relationship and all because of the work I did with her! If you're thinking of working with Ash, I promise you it will be one of the most rewarding experiences of your life! She's worth every penny, and more!"

-Lani A.

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"I was going through some huge changes in my everyday life.  I had married at the age of 70 after being single and not dating for over 20 years.  Ashlan’s insight and ability to hear the issues I was “not” verbalizing is incredible. She gave me insight and the tools to use in my relationship with my new husband and with myself in this newest chapter of my life. She is direct and yet gentle and compassionate in her communication.  She is unlike any Councilor or Life Coach I have ever been to.  I highly recommend her. "

-Zarya

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"My advice to those thinking of working with Ashlan, is go for it!! Expect to walk away with an incredible amount of confidence!  Ashlan is a great motivator and expresses absolutely zero judgement on what ever decisions you choose to make.  She is there to help you understand that life isn't always a "bowl of cherries". Sometimes things happen, and when your ready to help yourself, stop blaming and waiting on everything else to change, and regain control over your life, Ashlan is the one to turn to." 

- Wendi G

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"I'll try and keep this short and sweet like the transformational work Ashlan does. Let me start off by saying not only am I married to a psychologist, I have been seeing the same psychotherapist regularly for 11 years and she is wonderful. I appreciate our relationship and I have learned a lot.

I honestly don't know what I expected or really wanted when I met Ashlan, she was referred by a colleague who insisted I reach out and "see what happens". My only regret is that I didn't reach out sooner- I waited 4 months because I wasn't fully ready to deal with my part in all the areas of my life with which I was dissatisfied.

I heard from multiple people personal accountability is one of the first actions necessary for success with Ash. They were right and I am damn happy because my ENTIRE life has changed, literally.
Since it said "life solutionist", I thought hey I'm going to ask for help with everything! What sets Ashlan apart is her unique ability to tailor her services and create systems for whatever you need on the spot.

What I appreciate most about Ashlan, is this mysterious talent she has, which involves her being able to hear through all my rambling and somehow dissect, organize, and regurgitate it back to me with 100 times more clarity than was ever in my head in the first place, ultimately coming up with a plan of action to get my needs met every single time in any situation! Its incredible! 

If you are sick and tired of having the same problems with unsuccessful solutions and can muster up the courage to take accountability for where you are in your life, she is the most qualified person to assist you. Hardcore breakthroughs every session!!"

- T. Scott