Help! Why do I keep dating the same type of person!

Hi guys! I have another great topic for you this week! Yes, I heard your requests for this one! I really enjoy educating people on this subject because I feel like everyone(myself included), has wondered(at some point), why does it seem like I date the same person over and over again?

     What does this look like exactly? Well, it can manifest in many different forms. Three of the most common ways are: 1. You are having the same types of (unresolved) disagreements / arguments. 2.You often feel disappointed, unheard, unappreciated 3. You want and expect more from your partner than they are giving/ feel like you are the only one giving. Finally, resentment settles in and it reaffirms your belief that ALL MEN ARE LYING JERKS! OR ALL WOMEN ARE CRAZY! NEWS FLASH! If you keep seeing the same reoccurring issues in different relationships, maybe it's time to focus on the common denominator, YOU!!! I know, I know, that's a little harsh, right? That may be so, but so is the realization that you are solely responsible for the partners and the relationships you choose (positive or negative). We all attract the people we have in our lives consciously and unconsciously by the energy we emit into the universe every second of the day.

Okay, cool. This is awesome, not! What can I do about it?

The great news about all this is YOU, have the ability to completely change that one major issue or all of them for that matter. Actually, you are truly the only one who can make that paradigm shift and courageously look inward and acknowledge, accept and begin to address the areas where self growth and development is needed.

The more you focus on getting to know and love yourself, the more positive energy you emit, and the more you will attract positive, loving, individuals. LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE! This is a scientific universal law. So, I challenge you, next time you sit down to watch your favorite t.v. show, take five minutes and grab a pen and a piece of paper and make a short list of what you would like to see more of in your life. It can be anything. respect, laughter, compassion, patience, healthy communication. Read it everyday, believe you will receive it and watch it manifest!

Ashlan Warsteane

The Life Solutionist

(760) 974-6058

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